Ladies, you have the real power...

This post is a bit off-topic, because it addresses drama before there was an Eccieleaks. Since I started this blog several months ago, I have received emails from different providers about the men who have been identified as leakers and their experiences with them. Most of it had to do with Eccieleaks, but in looking back at my emails last night, I noticed an interesting pattern. I now have eleven different testimonies about the three sociopaths that come from ladies who have never been targeted on Eccieleaks and that took place before Eccieleaks even existed. In each case, the leaker become angry with the lady for some reason - she wouldn't negotiate her price, he didn't like her pictures, she wouldn't do bareback, etc. In each case, the leaker threatened outing as retaliation; in three cases, the lady was actually outed to family members by the leaker. It becomes clear that this kind of cruel behavior is not new but a long-term habit for the leakers. I am seeing that it is more common in the hobby than I realized before.

Now, along with this reflection, I came across an long email chain from 18 months ago that I had forgotten about till now. In it, a provider had named two of the three leakers and outlined the Horndogs.info connection to Eccieleaks. In hindsight, I can see that she was right on the money, and I wish that I had paid more attention to her then. It would have saved everyone a lot of trouble if I had. (I won't mention her name here, but, darling, you know who you are, and I admit you were right!)

So all of this brings me to a question for any provider who is reading this blog:

Why do you put up with stuff like this?!?!? You guys could stop sociopaths like the ones who run Eccieleaks if you would just work together somehow - network, communicate, whatever the right word is. I have tried to be a positive force in all of this, but I could understand how you would be reluctant to share info with an anonymous entity like myself. Isn't there someone out there that everyone can trust? What about Gina at P411 and the Blacklist? I just don't get how losers like the leakers get away with it.

OK, that's my rant for today.